My husband and I planned this move abroad, unlike most of what happened in our married life (including some of the children). Early in our marriage we wrote down "move to a foreign country for 2 years when kids are in school" as one of many goals we had. In 2004, after four kids and several business iterations later, we made our move to Argentina. We actually built a matrix to determine where in the world we would move. While Vancouver Canada, Spain and New Zealand were finalists, Argentina won! It had a fabulous family life, great weather, skiing, fishing and our kids (and maybe us) would become fluent in Spanish.
Fast forward more than 5 years. We are still here and what keeps us here is the fabulous family life. While there are other elements of life here that you could call unreliable, chaotic, or plain crazy, the trade off is a really mellow, close and sharing family life. The weekends are restful and relaxing and full of good food. Even the most A-type working people make room for a family life on the weekends.
The asado epitomises the Argentine way of looking at life. Asado means basically barbecue in Spanish. But an asado is so much more.
About one hour into the meal the big guns start coming off the grill. First its the matambrito de cerdo (pork). Its the rib meat without the rib. A great cut especially with a simple honey marinade.
There is dessert. A guest will always bring a gooey cream infused pie or cake. The gooey part is the dulce de leche, milk reduced to sugar goo. But the centerpiece is the ice cream. The ice cream has been just delivered by the family's ice cream store of choice.

Its taken you 4 or 5 hours to eat and drink all of that. Its a marathon of eating but at the pace of a turtle. It's so comfortable, relaxing, family centered and so Argentine. Unless of course there is a futbol game to watch, because there is nothing relaxing about that.
Before I go, many thanks to AsadoArgentina.com for use of its images of all that wonderful meat and its a great blog to visit if you want to learn more about the asado. And thanks to Paul for the opportunity to talk to the readers of his blog.